{"id":809,"date":"2026-03-03T07:28:59","date_gmt":"2026-03-03T06:28:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/doucetmaxime.com\/?p=809"},"modified":"2026-03-03T17:53:15","modified_gmt":"2026-03-03T16:53:15","slug":"le-cycle-dun-etre-blesse-par-le-manque-de-securite-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/doucetmaxime.com\/?p=809","title":{"rendered":"La relation \u00e0 soi : du moi construit au soi align\u00e9"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"809\" class=\"elementor elementor-809\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ba4f3a9 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"ba4f3a9\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b9ea731 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"b9ea731\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5bdbd96 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"5bdbd96\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-edbe33d elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"edbe33d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">La relation \u00e0 soi : du moi construit au soi align\u00e9<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8a09101 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"8a09101\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f9407e9 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"f9407e9\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6530c62 elementor-widget__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"6530c62\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/doucetmaxime.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/ChatGPT-Image-3-mars-2026-17_26_03-1024x683.png\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-850\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/doucetmaxime.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/ChatGPT-Image-3-mars-2026-17_26_03-1024x683.png 1024w, https:\/\/doucetmaxime.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/ChatGPT-Image-3-mars-2026-17_26_03-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/doucetmaxime.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/ChatGPT-Image-3-mars-2026-17_26_03-768x512.png 768w, https:\/\/doucetmaxime.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/ChatGPT-Image-3-mars-2026-17_26_03.png 1536w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b9253b8 elementor-widget__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b9253b8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p data-start=\"274\" data-end=\"348\">On parle souvent d\u2019estime de soi.<br data-start=\"307\" data-end=\"310\" \/>On parle rarement de relation \u00e0 soi.<\/p><p data-start=\"350\" data-end=\"390\">Et pourtant, c\u2019est l\u00e0 que tout commence.<\/p><p data-start=\"392\" data-end=\"499\">Mais pour comprendre la relation \u00e0 soi, il faut d\u2019abord distinguer deux niveaux : <strong data-start=\"474\" data-end=\"484\">le moi<\/strong> et <strong data-start=\"488\" data-end=\"498\">le soi<\/strong>.<\/p><ul data-start=\"501\" data-end=\"697\"><li data-start=\"501\" data-end=\"599\"><p data-start=\"503\" data-end=\"599\">Le <strong data-start=\"506\" data-end=\"513\">moi<\/strong> est l\u2019identit\u00e9 construite : notre histoire, nos r\u00f4les, nos blessures, nos strat\u00e9gies.<\/p><\/li><li data-start=\"600\" data-end=\"697\"><p data-start=\"602\" data-end=\"697\">Le <strong data-start=\"605\" data-end=\"612\">soi<\/strong> est le centre profond : ce qui demeure quand les r\u00f4les tombent, notre axe int\u00e9rieur.<\/p><\/li><\/ul><p data-start=\"699\" data-end=\"793\">La relation \u00e0 soi peut donc \u00eatre v\u00e9cue \u00e0 deux niveaux :<br data-start=\"754\" data-end=\"757\" \/>relation au moi\u2026 ou relation au soi.<\/p><p data-start=\"795\" data-end=\"852\">Et toute la maturit\u00e9 consiste \u00e0 passer de l\u2019un \u00e0 l\u2019autre.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7110295 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"7110295\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-dce8e81 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"dce8e81\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5ae927d elementor-widget__width-initial elementor-widget-mobile__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"5ae927d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Comment le moi s\u2019est construit<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-501399a elementor-widget__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"501399a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p data-start=\"907\" data-end=\"986\">On ne na\u00eet pas avec un moi stable.<br data-start=\"941\" data-end=\"944\" \/>Il se construit dans le regard des autres.<\/p><p data-start=\"988\" data-end=\"1104\">Enfance, famille, climat \u00e9motionnel, h\u00e9ritage transg\u00e9n\u00e9rationnel :<br data-start=\"1054\" data-end=\"1057\" \/>tout cela fa\u00e7onne notre identit\u00e9 psychologique.<\/p><p data-start=\"1106\" data-end=\"1163\">Certaines loyaut\u00e9s invisibles deviennent des programmes :<\/p><ul data-start=\"1165\" data-end=\"1274\"><li data-start=\"1165\" data-end=\"1186\"><p data-start=\"1167\" data-end=\"1186\">\u00ab Ne d\u00e9range pas. \u00bb<\/p><\/li><li data-start=\"1187\" data-end=\"1203\"><p data-start=\"1189\" data-end=\"1203\">\u00ab Sois fort. \u00bb<\/p><\/li><li data-start=\"1204\" data-end=\"1232\"><p data-start=\"1206\" data-end=\"1232\">\u00ab Occupe-toi des autres. \u00bb<\/p><\/li><li data-start=\"1233\" data-end=\"1274\"><p data-start=\"1235\" data-end=\"1274\">\u00ab Ta valeur d\u00e9pend de ta performance. \u00bb<\/p><\/li><\/ul><p data-start=\"1276\" data-end=\"1344\">Le moi apprend \u00e0 s\u2019adapter pour rester aim\u00e9, accept\u00e9 ou en s\u00e9curit\u00e9.<\/p><p data-start=\"1346\" data-end=\"1375\">Il d\u00e9veloppe des strat\u00e9gies :<\/p><ul data-start=\"1377\" data-end=\"1466\"><li data-start=\"1377\" data-end=\"1395\"><p data-start=\"1379\" data-end=\"1395\">sur-adaptation<\/p><\/li><li data-start=\"1396\" data-end=\"1418\"><p data-start=\"1398\" data-end=\"1418\">hyper-ind\u00e9pendance<\/p><\/li><li data-start=\"1419\" data-end=\"1431\"><p data-start=\"1421\" data-end=\"1431\">contr\u00f4le<\/p><\/li><li data-start=\"1432\" data-end=\"1446\"><p data-start=\"1434\" data-end=\"1446\">effacement<\/p><\/li><li data-start=\"1447\" data-end=\"1466\"><p data-start=\"1449\" data-end=\"1466\">perfectionnisme<\/p><\/li><\/ul><p data-start=\"1468\" data-end=\"1539\">Ces strat\u00e9gies ne sont pas des erreurs.<br data-start=\"1507\" data-end=\"1510\" \/>Elles ont permis de survivre.<\/p><p data-start=\"1541\" data-end=\"1597\">Mais elles ne garantissent pas l\u2019alignement avec le soi.<\/p><ul><li data-start=\"1599\" data-end=\"1701\">L\u2019estime de soi parle de valeur personnelle.<\/li><li data-start=\"1599\" data-end=\"1701\">La relation \u00e0 soi parle de fid\u00e9lit\u00e9 int\u00e9rieure.<\/li><\/ul><p data-start=\"1703\" data-end=\"1769\">Et cette fid\u00e9lit\u00e9 peut \u00eatre perdue si le moi prend toute la place<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e5dbf9c e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"e5dbf9c\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-74911da e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"74911da\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-cc513ab elementor-widget__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"cc513ab\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Ce que j\u2019en ai fait dans mon histoire<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-cfaf88e elementor-widget__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"cfaf88e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p data-start=\"1816\" data-end=\"1879\">Une fois construit, le moi projette son histoire dans le monde.<\/p><p data-start=\"1881\" data-end=\"1893\">Il choisit :<\/p><ul data-start=\"1895\" data-end=\"1982\"><li data-start=\"1895\" data-end=\"1912\"><p data-start=\"1897\" data-end=\"1912\">des partenaires<\/p><\/li><li data-start=\"1913\" data-end=\"1933\"><p data-start=\"1915\" data-end=\"1933\">des environnements<\/p><\/li><li data-start=\"1934\" data-end=\"1967\"><p data-start=\"1936\" data-end=\"1967\">des dynamiques professionnelles<\/p><\/li><li data-start=\"1968\" data-end=\"1982\"><p data-start=\"1970\" data-end=\"1982\">des conflits<\/p><\/li><\/ul><p data-start=\"1984\" data-end=\"2022\">qui confirment son sc\u00e9nario int\u00e9rieur.<\/p><p data-start=\"2024\" data-end=\"2033\">Exemple :<\/p><ul data-start=\"2035\" data-end=\"2207\"><li data-start=\"2035\" data-end=\"2118\"><p data-start=\"2037\" data-end=\"2118\">Si mon moi s\u2019est construit sur \u201cje dois m\u00e9riter l\u2019amour\u201d, je vais me surinvestir.<\/p><\/li><li data-start=\"2119\" data-end=\"2207\"><p data-start=\"2121\" data-end=\"2207\">S\u2019il s\u2019est construit sur \u201cmes \u00e9motions d\u00e9rangent\u201d, je vais me couper de mes ressentis.<\/p><\/li><\/ul><p data-start=\"2209\" data-end=\"2277\">On peut r\u00e9ussir socialement tout en \u00e9tant int\u00e9rieurement d\u00e9connect\u00e9.<\/p><p data-start=\"2279\" data-end=\"2356\">Dans ce cas, la relation au moi est active.<br data-start=\"2322\" data-end=\"2325\" \/>La relation au soi est absente.<\/p><p data-start=\"2358\" data-end=\"2418\">Le moi cherche la validation.<br data-start=\"2387\" data-end=\"2390\" \/>Le soi cherche la coh\u00e9rence.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-369c6b7 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"369c6b7\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-56151b1 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"56151b1\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c20fff4 elementor-widget__width-initial elementor-widget-mobile__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"c20fff4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Quand le moi domine<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-19d4b71 elementor-widget__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"19d4b71\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p data-start=\"2467\" data-end=\"2529\">La qualit\u00e9 de la relation \u00e0 soi se lit dans les comportements.<\/p><p data-start=\"2531\" data-end=\"2557\">Signes d\u2019un moi dominant :<\/p><ul data-start=\"2559\" data-end=\"2727\"><li data-start=\"2559\" data-end=\"2584\"><p data-start=\"2561\" data-end=\"2584\">difficult\u00e9 \u00e0 dire non<\/p><\/li><li data-start=\"2585\" data-end=\"2612\"><p data-start=\"2587\" data-end=\"2612\">peur excessive du rejet<\/p><\/li><li data-start=\"2613\" data-end=\"2650\"><p data-start=\"2615\" data-end=\"2650\">besoin constant de reconnaissance<\/p><\/li><li data-start=\"2651\" data-end=\"2668\"><p data-start=\"2653\" data-end=\"2668\">auto-sabotage<\/p><\/li><li data-start=\"2669\" data-end=\"2693\"><p data-start=\"2671\" data-end=\"2693\">\u00e9puisement chronique<\/p><\/li><li data-start=\"2694\" data-end=\"2727\"><p data-start=\"2696\" data-end=\"2727\">choix relationnels r\u00e9p\u00e9titifs<\/p><\/li><\/ul><p data-start=\"2729\" data-end=\"2810\">Les grands chocs de vie (d\u00e9c\u00e8s, s\u00e9paration, accident, burn-out) fissurent le moi.<\/p><p data-start=\"2812\" data-end=\"2822\">Pourquoi ?<\/p><p data-start=\"2824\" data-end=\"2869\">Parce qu\u2019ils attaquent l\u2019identit\u00e9 construite.<\/p><p data-start=\"2871\" data-end=\"2934\">Quand le r\u00f4le tombe, le moi vacille.<br data-start=\"2907\" data-end=\"2910\" \/>Et l\u2019on peut ressentir :<\/p><ul data-start=\"2936\" data-end=\"3005\"><li data-start=\"2936\" data-end=\"2942\"><p data-start=\"2938\" data-end=\"2942\">vide<\/p><\/li><li data-start=\"2943\" data-end=\"2961\"><p data-start=\"2945\" data-end=\"2961\">perte de rep\u00e8res<\/p><\/li><li data-start=\"2962\" data-end=\"3005\"><p data-start=\"2964\" data-end=\"3005\">impression de ne plus savoir qui l\u2019on est<\/p><\/li><\/ul><p data-start=\"3007\" data-end=\"3046\">Mais ces moments sont aussi des portes.<\/p><p data-start=\"3048\" data-end=\"3093\">Quand le moi s\u2019effondre, le soi peut \u00e9merger.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3ac7b63 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"3ac7b63\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6c6ff37 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"6c6ff37\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8b153bb elementor-widget__width-initial elementor-widget-mobile__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"8b153bb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Revenir au soi<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d5548e6 elementor-widget__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"d5548e6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p data-start=\"3138\" data-end=\"3167\">La vraie question n\u2019est pas :<\/p><p data-start=\"3169\" data-end=\"3207\">\u00ab Pourquoi suis-je devenu comme \u00e7a ? \u00bb<\/p><p data-start=\"3209\" data-end=\"3215\">Mais :<\/p><p data-start=\"3217\" data-end=\"3324\">\u00ab Est-ce que je continue \u00e0 fonctionner depuis mon moi\u2026<br data-start=\"3271\" data-end=\"3274\" \/>ou est-ce que je choisis d\u2019agir depuis mon soi ? \u00bb<\/p><p data-start=\"3326\" data-end=\"3351\">Revenir au soi implique :<\/p><ul data-start=\"3353\" data-end=\"3535\"><li data-start=\"3353\" data-end=\"3396\"><p data-start=\"3355\" data-end=\"3396\">\u00e9couter ses ressentis sans les censurer<\/p><\/li><li data-start=\"3397\" data-end=\"3421\"><p data-start=\"3399\" data-end=\"3421\">accepter de d\u00e9plaire<\/p><\/li><li data-start=\"3422\" data-end=\"3451\"><p data-start=\"3424\" data-end=\"3451\">poser des limites claires<\/p><\/li><li data-start=\"3452\" data-end=\"3490\"><p data-start=\"3454\" data-end=\"3490\">aligner ses actes avec ses valeurs<\/p><\/li><li data-start=\"3491\" data-end=\"3535\"><p data-start=\"3493\" data-end=\"3535\">ralentir pour entendre son axe int\u00e9rieur<\/p><\/li><\/ul><p data-start=\"3537\" data-end=\"3570\">Le soi ne crie pas.<br data-start=\"3556\" data-end=\"3559\" \/>Il oriente.<\/p><p data-start=\"3572\" data-end=\"3668\">Chaque d\u00e9cision coh\u00e9rente renforce la relation \u00e0 soi.<br data-start=\"3625\" data-end=\"3628\" \/>Chaque trahison int\u00e9rieure la fragilise.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-49ac2ba e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"49ac2ba\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-922a5fa e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"922a5fa\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-74ff8d5 elementor-widget__width-initial elementor-widget-mobile__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"74ff8d5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">\u00c9viter le \u201cj\u2019aurais d\u00fb m\u2019\u00e9couter\u201d<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5a77577 elementor-widget__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5a77577\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p data-start=\"3713\" data-end=\"3782\">Cette phrase appara\u00eet quand le soi a parl\u00e9\u2026<br data-start=\"3756\" data-end=\"3759\" \/>et que le moi a d\u00e9cid\u00e9.<\/p><p data-start=\"3784\" data-end=\"3802\">Pour \u00e9viter cela :<\/p><ol data-start=\"3804\" data-end=\"3969\"><li data-start=\"3804\" data-end=\"3850\"><p data-start=\"3807\" data-end=\"3850\">Apprendre \u00e0 distinguer peur et intuition.<\/p><\/li><li data-start=\"3851\" data-end=\"3903\"><p data-start=\"3854\" data-end=\"3903\">Observer les d\u00e9cisions prises pour \u00eatre valid\u00e9.<\/p><\/li><li data-start=\"3904\" data-end=\"3969\"><p data-start=\"3907\" data-end=\"3969\">Accepter que s\u2019aligner peut cr\u00e9er de l\u2019inconfort temporaire.<\/p><\/li><\/ol><p data-start=\"3971\" data-end=\"4056\">Le prix du conflit ext\u00e9rieur est souvent inf\u00e9rieur \u00e0 celui de la trahison int\u00e9rieure.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-828ec41 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"828ec41\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a6b464e e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"a6b464e\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-527c2ce elementor-widget__width-initial elementor-widget-mobile__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"527c2ce\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">En R\u00e9sum\u00e9<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a15d4aa elementor-widget__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"a15d4aa\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p data-start=\"4079\" data-end=\"4160\">Le moi permet d\u2019exister dans le monde.<br data-start=\"4117\" data-end=\"4120\" \/>Le soi permet d\u2019\u00eatre align\u00e9 dans sa vie.<\/p><p data-start=\"4162\" data-end=\"4194\">La relation \u00e0 soi \u00e9volue quand :<\/p><ul data-start=\"4196\" data-end=\"4338\"><li data-start=\"4196\" data-end=\"4229\"><p data-start=\"4198\" data-end=\"4229\">on reconna\u00eet l\u2019origine du moi<\/p><\/li><li data-start=\"4230\" data-end=\"4260\"><p data-start=\"4232\" data-end=\"4260\">on observe ses projections<\/p><\/li><li data-start=\"4261\" data-end=\"4296\"><p data-start=\"4263\" data-end=\"4296\">on transforme ses comportements<\/p><\/li><li data-start=\"4297\" data-end=\"4338\"><p data-start=\"4299\" data-end=\"4338\">on choisit consciemment depuis le soi<\/p><\/li><\/ul><p data-start=\"4340\" data-end=\"4398\">On ne supprime pas le moi.<br data-start=\"4366\" data-end=\"4369\" \/>On le remet \u00e0 sa juste place.<\/p><p data-start=\"4400\" data-end=\"4421\">Au service du centre.<\/p><p data-start=\"4423\" data-end=\"4550\">Et c\u2019est l\u00e0 que la relation \u00e0 soi devient mature :<br data-start=\"4473\" data-end=\"4476\" \/>quand l\u2019identit\u00e9 cesse de diriger\u2026<br data-start=\"4510\" data-end=\"4513\" \/>et que l\u2019axe int\u00e9rieur prend la main.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-de8906b e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"de8906b\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2955160 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"2955160\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">La paix commence le jour o\u00f9 tu deviens pour toi-m\u00eame le refuge que tu cherchais 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